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Issue 425 -- March 20 - 26, 2010
By: Mohamed Jibriil Elmi
Till doomsday, the life is the most important part of the human. That is why the reason, human devote effort how to survive on this array of events and problematic in the world if there is hard life or easy.
However, there are sociological aspects about human which includes; social behavior and perspectives. Darkhum, social analyst found the most lost of the human lives caused by the great excessive of social attachment and as well as less excessive of social attachment. He also added a further explanation that he mentioned the most suicide of individualist occurs in the protestant ritualistic greater three times than catholic society for their isolation in the community, while Japanese are more extrovert than other societies in the world and as well as more rate suicide than others.
As It seems the previous paragraph, there is a contradict words which makes you a hardly addle, because, the scholar stated neither social attachment nor individualism that resulted any endurance of life.
Therefore, first for most, do you think our generation jeopardize themselves for the sake of their hatred of the life? Of course, but not all the way! Because, our society includes some who doesn’t care the hard life and some who are sensible considered.
Nevertheless, there are several reasons which the people not to deal with the right path of the genuine meaning of the life.
First, hopeless is the worst source which result our generation to pass away their lives. The hopeless is not emergence case which begins from the person’s future but, it begins from the childhood life, because the children adapt their socialization through the family-hood that they live together, so the child who grew up in a low income family, result from their families; frequently failure, hopeless, abstruse of the life, distress, abyss and dark future, according the majority of the low class society though we know there are some who grew up with low income family and have better life and attitude than who come from the rich family. On the other hand, the children who grew up a wealth family much better lucky than others, and meet beautiful life if the life become as appropriate of beneficiary.
Second, excessive of social attachment, we know really; we are the proudest society in this world, this is the only factor which causes our society to fail their achievement of the life endurance.
For example, everybody in our society always alert how to become the leader of the society while that person doesn’t has an equivalent talent to be a leader or doesn’t has a leadership skill. So, there are number of people, looking for to be a multimillionaire without hard work and many others who want to take some titles without giving effort and time. Then, I think, it seems to you the most foolishness if you are a wise person.
By the way, I don’t think, you can do these elements without regarding of any respect to the others, giving time and effort, coming patience and equivalent knowledge. It may be, there are some people who don’t care what about related with leading and legitimate of the king but people has a bond which close strongly with the society around them. I mean the majority of people consider the words and the thoughts come from the mouth of the deadwood people those are; “you are not good for this position and this title, you are suitable for president – leader of the team” while, we know this person good for nothing. But, we can figure out this aspect that we have a problem creator society and most eager of evil action community. In addition, they are making a delusion picture which they show you that they are acclaiming to you, but it is not true, it is fake image. So, whenever you are in the society, don’t try to abet with them, and don’t expect from them to make with you like the way that you
Third, audacity of earning an easy life, there is no one who needs to make a life not more than two days while they need to make a better life than everyone else who lives on this universe. While they are complaining, “What is the reason that we can’t get wealth, pioneer, king of the life and the others can do it?”
Have you ever ask yourself, why our society audacity the life without hardworking? Simply, we know they can get from free life everywhere; they can live with their fathers, mothers and friends house. Do we have any reason that can be supported the dependent live in our society?
No! We don’t and I don’t know how can be supported a person who doesn’t need to live his/her own independent. I don’t mind to support an old age people, handicaps, feminine and underage that can’t live with their independence.
It’s good if you support the sponsors, how to make their lives, techniques that they can survive and how to make an enjoyable life, but, not spoon-feeding.
My friend, you may see some articles; I publish on the media those I suggest to my community an advice and comments. So, I don’t think that I am better than others but I like to contribute my community instant life and encourage them that we can everything.
Therefore, my young brother and sister, father and mother, teacher and student, president and opposition parts, my friend and collogues, don’t try to ignore your ability to make your own life, and try to support the brothers around you to make a long life existence.
I do sure, you will face a challenge but it needs; handwork, commitment, competence, patience, audacity of hope. I grantee you that you will success the life if you do one time more the life expectation for practically.
Just, we mentioned that we have life dropouts, do we mean the life dropouts is a suicide? No at all, that is not the right answer, but there is some misunderstanding of human perception about the life dropouts. So, let me say some thing about it deeply. Very simple if we say what about our imagination of the life dropouts, it is whatever related life misfortune includes; poor life management, misleading the real path of the life, waste time an abortive things, satisfaction life with dark future, risk immigration, damaging the health people in the community, content of fiction life, believing life without education and jobless, every bad things better than good things, thinking with up site down, unwilling development and prosperity.
My last conclusion, I don’t think that I am better than you how to manage the life, but I try to understand the life a lot. Thus, I remind you, the life is not easy and it needs; attentiveness, audacity of hope, problem solution, kindness, sacrifices to others, decision making and selectiveness.